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EP33: They Say New Age Grandmas “Suck”. Let’s Talk About It.

NEW AGE GRANDMAS “SUCK”

Apparently, the “new age grandma” is sad, selfish and doesn’t show up like grandmothers used to.

Well…let’s talk about WHY.

Today’s grandmothers are still working, caring for aging parents, maintaining marriages, building businesses and living their own damn lives. And many of us are no longer willing to tolerate disrespect, entitlement or one-sided relationships just to maintain access to our children and grandchildren.

In this episode, I’m talking about boundaries, reciprocity, the disappearing “village,” transactional family relationships and why so much of the blame for broken family dynamics continues to fall on mothers and grandmothers.

And while we’re talking about these “new age grandmas”…where are the granddads in this conversation?

CHAPTERS

00:00 The Return and the New Age Grandma 03:05 Understanding the New Age Grandma’s Role 05:59 The Burden of Expectations on Grandmothers 08:50 The Village Concept and Its Disappearance 12:01 Reciprocity in Family Relationships 14:49 Boundaries and Respect in Family Dynamics 18:04 Transactional Relationships and Emotional Manipulation 21:05 The Critique of Women in Family Dynamics 23:56 The Evolution of Grandmotherhood 27:03 The Need for Mutual Respect 29:54 The New Age Grandma’s Perspective

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EP32: When Your Child Shows You They Don’t Care โ€” Believe Them

What happens when your child’s actionsโ€”not their wordsโ€”show you they don’t care?

In this episode of Mum’s True Tea, we’re talking about the painful truth many parents face: accepting consistent disrespect, emotional distance, and lack of effort from adult children. When they show you they don’t care, you need to believe them!

If you’re dealing with estrangement, parental abuse, or feeling dismissed by your child, this episode will help you stop overextending yourself and start choosing your peace.

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EP31: Male Centered Moms Are NOT SAFE!

In this episode, Kendall Lasha delves into the dangers posed by male-centered women, particularly mothers and daughters, who prioritize men at the expense of themselves and other women. She explores how this mindset can lead to harmful behaviors and societal norms that undermine women’s safety and empowerment. Through personal experiences and insights, Kendall emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and being very cautious when dealing with these type of women.

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EP30: You May Be Grown, But Youโ€™re Not My Equal

Summary:

In this episode, Kendall Lasha discusses the growing mindset among young adults and teenagers who believe they are equal to their parents simply because they have reached adulthood. She explores the spiritual and ethical equality of all humans while emphasizing the sacred, non-peer role of parents. The conversation delves into the cultural and relational hierarchies that have existed for thousands of years, the impact of pop psychology on social media, and the importance of respecting the parental role. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of mutual respect and the challenges that arise when modern parenting expectations clash with traditional values.

Chapters

  • 00:00:00 Introduction and Overview
  • 00:00:00 Spiritual and Ethical Equality
  • 00:00:00 The Sacred Role of Parents
  • 00:00:00 Pop Psychology’s Influence
  • 00:00:00 Respect and Boundaries
  • 00:00:00 Cultural Hierarchies and Parenting

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EP29: Are They Really Breaking Generational Curses?

Join me as I unpack the complex topic of adult kids claiming that they are breaking generational curses. Are they truly breaking them, or merely creating new ones?

This episode challenges the narrative and explores what genuine healing looks like and what generational curse breaking really looks like.ย 

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EP28: OUR KIDS ARE OUR KRYPTONITE

Summary

In this episode of ‘Mum’s True Tea,’ Kendall Lasha discusses the often unspoken reality of child-to-parent abuse, drawing parallels between the struggles of motherhood and the concept of kryptonite from the Superman narrative. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing when children become toxic and the need for mothers to prioritize their own mental health and well-being. Through personal anecdotes and statistics, Kendall advocates for breaking the silence surrounding this issue and encourages mothers to seek support and empowerment.

Takeaways

Moms often need to take a breather for their own healing. Children can become a source of emotional pain for parents. The concept of kryptonite symbolizes how children can weaken parents. Child-to-parent abuse is a reality that is often overlooked. Silence about child-to-parent abuse can be harmful. Mothers are often expected to endure pain without speaking out. Financial and emotional abuse from children is a serious issue. Estrangement can be a necessary step for self-preservation. It’s important to seek support and not feel alone in these struggles. Mothers should prioritize their mental health over societal expectations.

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EP28: OUR KIDS ARE OUR KRYPTONITE

Summary

In this episode of ‘Mum’s True Tea,’ Kendall Lasha discusses the often unspoken reality of child-to-parent abuse, drawing parallels between the struggles of motherhood and the concept of kryptonite from the Superman narrative. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing when children become toxic and the need for mothers to prioritize their own mental health and well-being. Through personal anecdotes and statistics, Kendall advocates for breaking the silence surrounding this issue and encourages mothers to seek support and empowerment.

Takeaways

Moms often need to take a breather for their own healing. Children can become a source of emotional pain for parents. The concept of kryptonite symbolizes how children can weaken parents. Child-to-parent abuse is a reality that is often overlooked. Silence about child-to-parent abuse can be harmful. Mothers are often expected to endure pain without speaking out. Financial and emotional abuse from children is a serious issue. Estrangement can be a necessary step for self-preservation. It’s important to seek support and not feel alone in these struggles. Mothers should prioritize their mental health over societal expectations.

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EP27: What in the Fresh Hell? The Absurd Reasons Behind No Contact

Summary

In this episode of Mumโ€™s True Tea, host Kendall Lasha discusses the absurd reasons adult children give for going no contact with their parents, particularly mothers. She critiques the influence of social media and modern therapy on parenting narratives, emphasizing that affection and involvement are often misinterpreted as control or abuse. Lasha argues that the blame for adult children’s struggles is unfairly placed on parents, who often provided love and support. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing the emotional tools parents provide and the need to reclaim parental identity amidst societal pressures.

Takeaways

Moms are often blamed for their children’s issues. Adult children use therapy as an excuse for estrangement. Affection from parents is misinterpreted as smothering. Generational wealth is misunderstood in parenting contexts. Social media influences perceptions of parenting negatively. Involvement in children’s lives is not narcissism. Healing should focus on honesty, not manipulation. The phrase ‘I didn’t ask to be born’ is problematic. Parents often struggle to provide while being blamed. True wealth includes emotional support and life skills.

Chapters

00:00 The Blame Game: Parenting Under Scrutiny 02:46 The Ridiculous Reasons for Estrangement 05:31 Affection vs. Abuse: Misunderstandings in Parenting 08:43 The Impact of Generational Wealth and Stability 11:30 Social Media’s Role in Parenting Narratives 14:07 The Misconceptions of Control and Involvement 17:15 The New Age of Therapy and Parenting Expectations 20:02 The Unasked Question: Why Did You Have Kids? 22:45 Healing from False Narratives 25:52 Reclaiming Parental Truths

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EP27: What in the Fresh Hell? The Absurd Reasons Behind No Contact

Summary

In this episode of Mumโ€™s True Tea, host Kendall Lasha discusses the absurd reasons adult children give for going no contact with their parents, particularly mothers. She critiques the influence of social media and modern therapy on parenting narratives, emphasizing that affection and involvement are often misinterpreted as control or abuse. Lasha argues that the blame for adult children’s struggles is unfairly placed on parents, who often provided love and support. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing the emotional tools parents provide and the need to reclaim parental identity amidst societal pressures.

Takeaways

Moms are often blamed for their children’s issues. Adult children use therapy as an excuse for estrangement. Affection from parents is misinterpreted as smothering. Generational wealth is misunderstood in parenting contexts. Social media influences perceptions of parenting negatively. Involvement in children’s lives is not narcissism. Healing should focus on honesty, not manipulation. The phrase ‘I didn’t ask to be born’ is problematic. Parents often struggle to provide while being blamed. True wealth includes emotional support and life skills.

Chapters

00:00 The Blame Game: Parenting Under Scrutiny 02:46 The Ridiculous Reasons for Estrangement 05:31 Affection vs. Abuse: Misunderstandings in Parenting 08:43 The Impact of Generational Wealth and Stability 11:30 Social Media’s Role in Parenting Narratives 14:07 The Misconceptions of Control and Involvement 17:15 The New Age of Therapy and Parenting Expectations 20:02 The Unasked Question: Why Did You Have Kids? 22:45 Healing from False Narratives 25:52 Reclaiming Parental Truths

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EP26: Abused By My Own Child

Summary

In this conversation, Kendall Lasha addresses the often-overlooked issue of parental abuse, discussing the emotional, verbal, and physical abuse that mothers may endure from their children. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing this abuse, setting boundaries, and taking action to protect oneself. The conversation highlights the need for mothers to reclaim their dignity and safety, encouraging them to speak up, seek support, and prioritize their well-being.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Parental Abuse 05:36 Setting Boundaries and Protecting Yourself 10:03 Finding Support and Healing

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